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dyneema tarp 3x3 DD Tarp 3x3 Waterproof Camping Tarp – Wylies Outdoor WorldDD Hammocks DD Tarp 3x3 Waterproof Camping Tarp for Hammock and Bushcraft The DD Hammocks Tarp 3x3 provides waterproof shelter for hammock camping and bushcraft with 19 reinforced attachment points for versatile setup configurations. This 3 metre square tarp weighs 790g and packs to 24x14x4cm, made from 190T polyester with 3000mm waterproof PU coating. Available in 7 colours including Olive Green, Coyote Brown, Black, Sunset Orange, Multicam, Forest

DD Hammocks DD Tarp 3x3 Waterproof Camping Tarp for Hammock and Bushcraft

The DD Hammocks Tarp 3x3 provides waterproof shelter for hammock camping and bushcraft with 19 reinforced attachment points for versatile setup configurations. This 3 metre square tarp weighs 790g and packs to 24x14x4cm, made from 190T polyester with 3000mm waterproof PU coating. Available in 7 colours including Olive Green, Coyote Brown, Black, Sunset Orange, Multicam, Forest Green, and Winter Multicam.

IMPORTANT: This tarp does NOT include a ridgeline. Purchase ridgelines separately from our tarp suspension accessories collection.


DD Tarp 3x3 Model Comparison Table

DD Hammocks offers four 3x3 tarp versions suited for different camping needs. This comparison helps you choose the right tarp for your specific requirements.

Feature Standard 3x3 (This Product) 3x3 PRO 3x3 UV50 Plus
Attachment Points 19 reinforced points 21 points plus 16 eyelets 19 reinforced points
Weight 790g 875g 790g
Special Features Standard configuration Press studs for enclosing shelter, connecting tarps UV50 Plus protection blocks 98% UVA and UVB
Best For General hammock camping and bushcraft Advanced setups and extreme weather Summer camping and hot climates
Colours Available 7 options 2 options (Olive Green, Multicam) 1 option (Bancha Green)
Price Point Most affordable Mid range Mid range
Recommended For Most users, best all-round choice Experienced users wanting maximum versatility Tropical travel and beach camping

The standard DD Tarp 3x3 is the most popular and universally suited option, offering the best balance of features, weight, and price for general outdoor use.


DD Tarp 3x3 19 Attachment Points for Versatile Shelter Setups

The 19 reinforced attachment points include 16 around the sides and corners, plus 3 along the centre ridgeline. These attachment points enable multiple shelter configurations suited for different weather conditions and camping situations. The attachment points use reinforced fabric patches to handle the stress of guy lines and stakes without tearing.

The three centre ridgeline points allow asymmetric pitches where you position the ridgeline off-centre to create different shelter shapes. This flexibility lets you adapt the tarp setup to available trees, terrain features, and weather conditions without being locked into symmetrical configurations.


DD Tarp 3x3 Shelter Setup Configurations

The 19 attachment points enable these shelter configurations for different weather conditions and camping situations.

A Frame Setup for Balanced Rain and Wind Protection

Run a ridgeline between two trees or use tarp poles. Drape the tarp over the ridgeline with one third on one side and two thirds on the other. Fold the longer side to create a floor and stake the edges to the ground. Adjust the tension and peg out the corners for stability. This setup provides good airflow while protecting against rain and wind from multiple directions.

Lean To Setup for Quick Shelter and Fire Reflection

Secure one edge of the tarp to a high point like a ridgeline or tree limb. Stake the opposite side to the ground creating a sloped roof. Position the shelter to block wind with space to build a fire in front. The angled tarp reflects heat from the fire back into the shelter, making this setup effective for cold weather camping. This is the quickest setup when you need shelter fast.

Plow Point Setup for Wind Resistant Shelter

Secure one corner of the tarp high on a tree or with a pole. Stake the opposite corner to the ground. Use additional stakes and guylines to stabilize the sides. This fast setup creates a pointed, wind-resistant structure with a smaller footprint suitable for exposed locations where wind comes from a consistent direction.

Flying Wedge Setup for Heavy Rain Protection

Set up one side high using a tree or pole. Run the other side low to the ground. The steep slope sheds torrential rain effectively. Ensure the slope directs water away from your sleeping area to prevent pooling underneath the shelter. This low-profile setup also handles strong winds better than taller configurations.

Diamond Setup for Hammock Camping

Position the tarp diagonally over your hammock with corners pointing fore and aft. This configuration provides coverage along the hammock length while shedding rain to the sides. The diamond setup works well in wooded areas where trees are not perfectly aligned for an A-frame pitch.

Ground Tarp Setup for Tent Floor Protection

Lay the tarp flat and stake out all four corners to create a clean, dry floor. Use this configuration as a protective ground cloth underneath a tent to prevent wear and add insulation, or as a simple base for sleeping when combined with a sleeping mat and bivvy bag.

Additional Uses for DD Tarp 3x3

Angle the tarp to direct rainwater into a container for water collection in camp. Use the tarp as a flysheet draped over a tent or shelter to add extra waterproofing and wind protection. Create a covered cooking and gear storage area at base camp by setting up the tarp as a porch extension to your main shelter.


DD Tarp 3x3 Waterproof 3000mm PU Coating

The 190T polyester fabric carries a 3000mm waterproof PU coating with taped central seam. This waterproof rating handles heavy downpours and prolonged rain common in UK camping conditions. The taped seam prevents water penetration along the centre ridgeline where two fabric panels join, eliminating a common failure point in cheaper tarps.

All DD tarps remain 100% waterproof even in the heaviest storms. The 3000mm rating exceeds the waterproof standard required for UK camping, where sustained rainfall tests tarp performance more than brief showers in drier climates. The polyester fabric maintains its waterproof properties over years of use when properly cared for.


DD Tarp 3x3 Available in 7 Colour Options

Olive Green

Natural colour that blends into UK woodland environments without standing out. Suitable for most camping situations where you want your shelter to blend with the surroundings. The most popular colour choice for general bushcraft and wild camping.

Coyote Brown

Earth tone that works well in open moorland, autumn woodland, and varied terrain types. The neutral brown colour provides versatility across different environments and seasons. Less common than Olive Green but equally effective for blending into natural settings.

Black

Absorbs heat from sunlight, making it warmer in cold conditions. Works well for urban camping and stealth setups where dark colours blend with man-made structures. Shows dirt less than lighter colours but can feel warmer in summer sun.

Sunset Orange

High visibility colour for emergency signaling and situations where you want your shelter to be easily located. Useful for group camping where you need to find your shelter quickly, or for safety in areas where visibility matters. Stands out in natural settings.

Multicam

DD Hammocks' own camouflage pattern designed to blend into UK woodlands. Provides visual concealment across varied landscapes. The Multicam pattern costs more due to specialized printing and pattern licensing. Choose this if visual concealment is important for your camping style.

Forest Green

Darker green shade that matches deep woodland and coniferous forests. Blends well in UK forest environments for low-impact camping. Similar to Olive Green but with a deeper, richer tone that works particularly well in dense woodland.

Winter Multicam

DD Hammocks' own winter camouflage pattern designed for snowy conditions. Provides visual concealment when you want to stay hidden from sight at a distance in winter environments. Winter Multicam costs more due to specialized printing. Choose this for winter hammock camping in snow-covered landscapes.


DD Tarp 3x3 Specifications and Pack Size

  • Size - 3 metres x 3 metres
  • Weight - 790g excluding pegs and guy lines
  • Packed Size - 24cm x 14cm x 4cm approximately
  • Material - 190T polyester with 3000mm PU waterproof coating
  • Seams - Taped central seam
  • Attachment Points - 19 reinforced points (16 sides and corners, 3 along centre ridgeline)
  • Colours - Olive Green, Coyote Brown, Black, Sunset Orange, Multicam, Forest Green, Winter Multicam
  • Included - 4 pegs and guy lines in separate bag, stuff sack with drawcord
  • NOT Included - Ridgeline (sold separately)

DD Tarp 3x3 Size Suitable for Solo Hammock Camping and Bushcraft

The 3x3 metre size provides coverage for one person and their gear in most hammock camping configurations. When set up as an A-frame or diamond over a hammock, the 3 metre width covers the hammock with space on each side to keep rain off. The 3 metre length provides coverage from head to foot with room for a small pack or boots at one end.

For ground dwelling setups, the 3x3 size works for one person with gear stored inside the shelter. Two people can fit under a 3x3 tarp in emergency situations, but the DD Tarp 4x4 size provides more comfortable space for two people or one person with extensive gear spread out.


DD Tarp 3x3 Complementary Equipment for Complete Shelter System

Pair this tarp with hammock suspension accessories to create a complete hammock camping setup. A ridgeline rope suspends the tarp between trees, with DD Cord or DD Superlight Amsteel Rope providing the strength needed without stretching like paracord.

For cold weather hammock camping, add a hammock underblanket or quilt to insulate underneath and around your body. The tarp provides rain and wind protection while the insulation maintains warmth. DD Superlight Tent Pegs work well for staking out the tarp in softer ground, while DD Tarp Poles enable setups where trees are not available.


What DD Tarp 3x3 Standard Does Best

The DD Tarp 3x3 Standard excels as the most versatile and universally suited option in the 3x3 range. The 19 attachment points provide enough setup options for most camping situations without the added weight and complexity of the PRO version. The 790g weight keeps pack weight reasonable for solo camping and backpacking. The 3000mm waterproof coating handles UK rain conditions reliably, and the 7 colour options let you choose the right colour for your camping environment and style.


DD Tarp 3x3 Standard Limitations to Consider

The 3x3 size provides adequate coverage for solo camping but feels tight for two people or one person with extensive gear. Taller users over 6 feet may find the 3 metre length leaves little room for gear storage at the ends when using hammock setups. The 790g weight is heavier than ultralight tarps like the DD Superlight Tarp, making the standard 3x3 less suitable for ultralight backpacking where every gram matters.

The tarp fabric is not fire resistant. Sparks from campfires can burn holes in the material, so maintain safe distance between fires and the tarp. The tarp does not include a ridgeline, so you must purchase suspension equipment separately to set up the shelter.


How to Care for DD Tarp 3x3 Waterproof Camping Tarp

Shake off dirt and debris after each use before packing the tarp away. Allow the tarp to dry completely before long term storage to prevent mildew growth on the fabric. If the tarp gets muddy, rinse it with clean water and hang it to dry before packing.

Inspect the attachment points and seams regularly for wear or damage. The reinforced attachment points handle significant stress during setup, but check for any tearing or separation from the main fabric. Store the tarp loosely rolled or hung rather than compressed tightly for extended periods, as this maintains the waterproof coating effectiveness.

Avoid setting up campfires directly under the tarp or too close to the edges. The polyester fabric melts and burns when exposed to sparks or direct flame. Position fires at safe distances and consider wind direction to prevent sparks blowing onto the tarp material.


DD Tarp 3x3 Advice from Wylies Outdoor World Fife Scotland

Wylies Outdoor World's owner Drew has personally tested every DD Hammocks product over almost a decade, using them 4 nights a week in the best and worst weather the UK has to offer. This extensive field testing provides real-world knowledge of how DD tarps perform in actual camping conditions.

Questions about choosing between the standard 3x3, PRO, or UV50 Plus versions? Need advice on tarp setup configurations for specific weather conditions or camping situations? Contact us for guidance based on years of hands-on experience with DD Hammocks equipment.


DD Tarp 3x3 Frequently Asked Questions

Which 3x3 tarp version should I choose?

Choose the standard 3x3 for general hammock camping and bushcraft - it offers the best balance of features, weight, and price for most users. Choose the PRO if you want maximum setup versatility with extra attachment points and press studs. Choose the UV50 Plus for summer camping and hot climates where UV protection matters.

Is the DD Tarp 3x3 truly waterproof?

Yes, the 190T polyester fabric has a 3000mm waterproof PU coating with taped central seam. This rating handles heavy downpours and prolonged rain. All DD tarps remain 100% waterproof even in the heaviest storms based on extensive field testing in UK weather conditions.

Which setup configuration works best for different weather?

Use the A-frame setup for balanced protection against rain and wind with good airflow. The lean-to works well for quick setup with fire reflection in cold weather. The plow point provides wind resistance in exposed locations. The flying wedge sheds heavy rain effectively. The diamond setup works well for hammock camping. Choose your setup based on expected weather conditions and available anchor points.

Can the 3x3 size work for two people?

Two people can fit under a 3x3 tarp in emergency situations, but the space feels tight with gear. The DD Tarp 4x4 size provides more comfortable coverage for two people or one person with extensive gear. The 3x3 works best for solo camping with room for one person and their equipment.

Which colour should I choose?

Olive Green and Forest Green blend into UK woodland for most camping situations. Coyote Brown works well in open moorland and varied terrain. Black absorbs heat and works for urban camping. Sunset Orange provides high visibility for safety and emergency signaling. Multicam provides visual concealment using DD Hammocks' specialized camouflage pattern. Winter Multicam provides visual concealment in snowy conditions when you want to stay hidden from sight at a distance. Both Multicam patterns cost more due to specialized printing.

Does the tarp come with a ridgeline?

No DD tarps include a ridgeline. You need to purchase ridgeline rope separately from our tarp suspension accessories collection. DD Cord or DD Superlight Amsteel Rope work well as they provide strength without stretching like paracord. The tarp includes 4 pegs and guy lines in a separate bag, plus a stuff sack.

How does the standard 3x3 compare to the DD Superlight Tarp?

The standard DD Tarp 3x3 weighs 790g and uses durable 190T polyester fabric. The DD Superlight Tarp weighs significantly less using thinner fabric, making it better for ultralight backpacking where weight matters most. The heavier standard version provides more durability for regular use and rough conditions.

Can I use this tarp for hammock camping and ground dwelling?

Yes, the DD Tarp 3x3 works for both hammock coverage and ground-based shelters. The 19 attachment points enable configurations suited for suspending over a hammock or creating ground dwelling setups like A-frames, lean-tos, and enclosed shelters.

Is the tarp fire resistant?

No, the polyester fabric is not fire resistant. Sparks from campfires can burn holes in the material. Maintain safe distance between fires and the tarp, and consider wind direction to prevent sparks blowing onto the fabric.

How many attachment points does the standard have compared to the PRO?

The standard 3x3 has 19 reinforced attachment points (16 around sides and corners, 3 along centre ridgeline). The PRO has 21 attachment points plus 16 additional eyelets and a press stud system for enclosing the shelter or connecting multiple tarps.

What suspension equipment do I need to buy separately?

At minimum, you need a ridgeline (DD Cord or DD Superlight Amsteel Rope) and tree protection straps. For advanced setups, consider DD Fixed Loops for adjustable attachments, additional guy lines for storm-worthy configurations, and DD Tarp Poles for setups where trees are not available.

How does the 3x3 compare to the 3.5x3.5 and 4x4 sizes?

The 3x3 at 790g is the lightest option for solo camping. The 3.5x3.5 at 1050g provides more coverage for solo with extra gear or XL hammocks. The 4x4 at 1290g works best for two person camping or group shelters. Choose based on your typical camping style and whether you camp solo or with others.

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